Don't stay......just leave

There are tons of people who stay in a relationship for all of the wrong reasons. In the beginning of the relationship, all is well. But when you finally get to know that individual, they are not who you thought they were and then you become unhappy. You try to leave but the thought of hurting the other person breaks your heart. What do you do? Do you run away, or do you stay to avoid the other person from experiencing heartache? Let me answer that question for you.......LEAVE!

My reason for saying that is because in the end, the relationship with hurt the both of you. It will hurt you because you're simply not happy. Then it will hurt the other person because once they find out that you are no longer in love with them, they become upset and heartbroken. There's no worse feeling than loving someone who doesn't love you back. That individual could move on and eventually find someone who completes them but if you hold on to something that simply isn't there, you are wasting both of ya'lls time. And we all know that you can never go back in time......life is too short to waste it with someone who you do not care for.

Breaking up with someone is not easy, but it must be done. Break it down to that person nicely. It doesn't have to be a dramatic breakup. Be 100% honest. They may not like what you have to say but at least you will have a peace of mind and you will not end the relationship with a lie. Like I have said before, you have to do things to make YOU happy! Live life to the fullest. We only live once so do what you love and love who you want......don't waste anybody's time.

-Markesha xoxo