Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Can men and women just be FRIENDS?



Hello Lovers,

So, a friend of mine asked me can a man and woman be friends without being sexual. My answer of course was yes.......but I would like to ask everyone else that same question. Is it possible? Do you have thoughts in your mind being intimate with this "friend" of yours? Can you resist temptation?

When I asked that same question to a friend of mine, he basically told me no......unless they were physically active before, the sex was not good so they did not think that a relationship in the future would be so they just stayed friends. Usually, the first thing that attracts us to the opposite sex is their looks. After that, it's their personality. With that being said, if the first thing you notice about a person is their appearance, could you possibly be that attractive persons friend? I personally have male attractive friends and I look at them as FRIENDS ONLY!  Nothing more........nothing less. How I see it, if that attractive guy friend of mines tries to pursue something other than a friendship, I would have to look at the pros and cons because if our intimacy is horrible, that would make the friendship awkward. If the intimacy is awesome, someone is bound to catch feelings and if one person doesn't feel the same way the other person does, the friendship again......is awkward or most likely over.

I would like to get every ones opinion on this topic. What do you think? Leave your comments below. I would like to get some feedback ;-)

-Markesha xoxo


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