Tuesday, April 2, 2013

When You're In Love...

"We are most alive when we're in love"
                                                        - John Updike


Love can make you do some crazy things. When you're in love, you feel like you're walking on cloud 9. You will go to the extreme for the person you care about the most. Some of you may not believe in love anymore because your heart has been broken too many times; However, there is someone for everyone and your soul mate is out there waiting for you.

Love happens when you least expect it. If you keep searching and being impatient about it, the longer it will take to meet your one true love. I wanted to take the time to explain this because I feel that some of us want to know what love really is. You never know, you might have someone in your life who's in love with you and you just haven't realized it.

When you are in love, you think about that person all the time. You want to spend every single moment with them and if you live far away, you are either willing to move to where they are or vice versa. If you get those butterflies in your stomach whenever you see a picture of them or in person......that's love. If you stop what you're doing to make time for them, even if it's for 5 minutes, that's love. A "Good Morning" text or "Goodnight" message that puts a smile on your face is another sign of love.

When two people really care about each other, there is nothing in this world that they would not do for each other. Love is not selfish. Love is also not impatient. For example, if you have a loved one away for college, true love waits until that individual is finished. Some people believe long distant relationships don't work but if two people are really meant for each other, they will do whatever it takes to keep the relationship strong and alive. Love sees no distance.

One important rule I must share is LOVE YOURSELF FIRST! It is impossible to love someone when you don't love yourself. If you have love for self, you'll know what love is all about and live a happy life <3.

-Markesha xoxo



 

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